yozz25 wrote:I already know the pattern by heart, get 1000 feet agl, paralell runway downwind, enrich mix, engage elec fuel pump, drop flaps in safe range and begin decent, at 45 to runway, go to base leg, drop next flap, then turn into final, keep a 70 kts with yoke, play with power a bit, and when made concentrate on runway, all done slowly and quietly in my mind.
Once the runway is made, I focus coming to my flare, sometimes a bit early, so we float, never late of course, but when on time I just wish he would shut up so I can get a better feel on it.
He tells me 90% of input is me, it's just the freaking reaction upon pull pull pull pull which enerves me. We land, like pulling the reigns on a horse, then disengage flaps which I do slowly, he does quickly, that annoys me, then I concentrate on pulling throttle slowly forward to full, concentrate on keeping runway in line using rudder, and when over 60 kts pull up easy all with tons of runway to spare with no trees or anything since Im in the freaking desert.
I need someone on valium next to me to match my state of my, he speaks too fast for me, I need to be lulled and soothed in flight, everything slow and easy even the speaking part.
yozz, mellow is the way
I'm 54, and just passed my check ride. So I can sympathize a bit. I'm certainly no instructor, just speaking from recent experience.
How often are you flying? If it's less than once a week it's going to be very hard to start feeling comfortable with the plane. If it's more than once a week, you should start seeing some improvement pretty soon, or I'd consider another instructor. Are there any female instructors at your school? Their approach tends to be gentle nudges rather than hard pushes which might work better for ;you.
I think that for a lot of people, learning to land is sort of a eureka moment. You struggle for a long time and then all the sudden it clicks. You have to get the picture stuck in your head and get the confidence to know when it's right.
My first instructor (had three) told me one of the keys to a good landing was trying to hold the nose wheel off as long as possible. This of course is a gross oversimplification, but the concept is very useful. Just keep easing back as the plane gets lower.
Good luck and let us know how you proceed.
Ron